Five ways to make mummy friends

14/01/2018 by Emily Tredget

Becoming a mum is a daunting time for anyone, especially if you’re the first one of your friends to have a baby, or if your friends all have older children. Having mummy friends around to keep you company through sleepless nights is invaluable, but, for some of us meeting new people can be (almost) as daunting as having a child.

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Loneliness is also reported to effect 9 in 10 mums, and as it can lead to maternal mental health issues such as post-natal depression it’s important to build a good local support network around you

Here are some ways to make friends with other mums.

Go to your local toddler group

Toddler groups are a great way to meet mums, in your local area. They give you a chance to offload or ask questions to people in a similar situation to you, and your child gets to socialise too! Sometimes there is a cost associated with classes, but you can often find toddler groups at local churches that are either free or only a small charge - normally including coffee and cake!

Go to your local library

Some libraries have story time sessions or sing-a-longs for children. Not only are these a good way to meet other parents, but they’re also a great way to introduce your children to books and libraries from a very young age. They are generally free too!

Join a local Facebook Group

A lot of local areas now have their own Facebook groups where people share local news and events. You might find something to go to, or you might start chatting to new people in comments and discussions. There might even be someone to virtually keep you company during night time feeds.

Ask to join MummyLinks

If you’re reading this then there’s a good chance that you have already heard of MummyLinks . But if you haven’t, MummyLinks allows you to arrange safe playdates with other mums in your area (it’s invite/approval only so you know you are meeting trusted mum friends of mum friends!) It’s a great resource for last minute playdates – when someone cancels as their kid is sick, or you hadn’t made plans yet.

Be the first one to say hi

This one can sound pretty scary, but someone has to make the first move to become friends. Start smiling or saying hello to any mums you meet in the park or at a coffee shop. You might not click, and that’s okay, but at least you’ll know you tried. I’ve had a few strange looks, but many great chats this way!

What are your tips for making mum friends? I’d love to hear them!

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What

MummyLinks is a free app helping mums beat loneliness through local playdates.

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Why

Being a mum is tough, so building a strong, local community is key.

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How

Create or join playdates with local mums, even at short notice. Sign up for free today!

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Safe

We take safety very seriously. MummyLinks is invite only. You can find out more here.